Turn the page. Paste (or write) the Managing conflict heading at the top of the left hand page.
Managing Conflict
- Draw or make a collage, using a range of media items, illustrating the type of situation, or factors, which result in conflict in your relationship.
- Choose a colour crayon you dislike. Write some words which describe how conflict presents itself in your relationship eg Argue, Yelling, Sulky etc.
- Draw a line down the middle of the right hand page. Paste (or write) the What’s worked well heading on the right hand side of the line, and What hasn’t worked on the left hand side. These headings can be anywhere (on their own side of the line) and any way up.
What's Worked Well
What Hasn't Worked
4. Under what hasn’t worked, draw, write or use media to illustrate things which have been ineffective in resolving conflict in your relationship in the past.5. Under what’s worked well, draw, write or use media to illustrate things which have worked well in resolving conflict in your relationship in the past.
6. Draw, write or use to media to illustrate at least one more strategy which you could try in the future if conflict arises.
7. Take a colour crayon you like. Colour in or circle the two BEST strategies for managing conflict in your relationship.
8. Take a black crayon. Draw a cross or a line through the two WORST ways of dealing with conflict in your relationship.
9. Take a crayon in a bright cheerful colour, which you like. Look back on the Managing Conflict (left hand) page. Underneath or close to each word you wrote describing how conflict presents itself in your relationship, write a positive alternative or opposite eg: Sulky – Smiling; Argue – Talking etc.